Let’s talk toys! Not LEGO, not Monopoly (unless that’s your kink), but those delightful gadgets that go buzz buzz and make your toes curl. If you’re wondering how to bring toys into your relationship without making it weird or turning it into an awkward episode of a reality show; don’t worry. We’ve got you.

Whether you're just getting comfy with your partner or have been together long enough to finish each other’s snacks and sentences, adding a toy or two into the mix can open up a pandora box of whole new world of pleasure.

1. Ditch the Guilt! It’s Not Cheating, It’s Teamwork

Some people feel a little nervous bringing up toys because they think it sends the wrong message: “Am I not enough?” Listen this isn’t about replacing anyone. It’s about enhancing what’s already awesome.

Toys are like seasoning. You don’t need chilli flakes on pizza but wow, do they bring the heat.

2. Talk About It Outside the Bedroom

The best place to bring up toys? Not mid stroke. Try a low pressure moment over dinner, while scrolling TikTok, or during a cozy cuddle. Keep it light, curious, and judgment free.

Try something like:
"Hey babe, I read this cheeky blog post, and it got me thinking would you be open to trying something new in bed?"

If they say “yes,” great! If they say “maybe,” that’s still a win because it’s a conversation starter, not a sales pitch.

3. Start Small and Think Intro, Not Invasion

You don’t need to throw a full blown BDSM dungeon into the mix on Day One. Start with something simple and fun:

• A vibrating ring (hello, shared vibes)
• A bullet vibe that’s compact but powerful
• A massager that accidentally wanders south

Keep it chill and see what sparks joy Marie Kondo style, but sexier.

4. Make It a Joint Adventure

Shopping for toys together can be foreplay in disguise. Browse online (hint hint) and read descriptions out loud, giggle at the funny ones, and see what catches both your eyes. This builds anticipation and turns it into a shared exploration, not a solo mission.

Bonus: Use terms like “Let’s try” instead of “I want”. Language matters!

5. Play, Laugh, Repeat

The first time might feel awkward. Something might buzz unexpectedly. Someone might accidentally press turbo mode mid mission. That’s okay! Laugh it off, try again, and remember this is about connection, curiosity, and yes, maybe a few happy accidents.

Toys: The Relationship Upgrade You Didn’t Know You Needed

Introducing toys into your relationship doesn’t have to be a Big Serious Talk™. It’s about saying, “I love being with you and I’d also love to turn this up a notch.”

So go ahead to explore, experiment, and play like no one’s watching (except maybe your cat, and they’re judging everything anyway).

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Because love is beautiful. But love with a little vibration? That’s next level.